Anyway, I kind of really love giving presents and also kind of hate it. I mean getting an awesome present for someone which really clicks with them and makes them go wow when they open it is cool. Its not about the cost of the item, but how cool and specific to that recipient it is. It's all about the message "I thought long and hard and found this item which I think will excite and engage you"
The other end of the spectrum is the reason I hate giving presents. When you can't find something good or don't know someone well enough and end up falling back on a standard gift idea just because it is Xmas or whatever and you're expected to give something. Socks and toiletries are the epitome of this concept, they give the message "I had 20 mins left in my lunch break so I grabbed this from the gift aisle" and frankly I think I'd rather no message than that.
Maybe I'm jaded by my experiences as a kid. One year I wanted a science kit, which seemed at the time to be the best thing in the world!! It was probably something like this:
(We are talking about over 20 years ago, so a bit different)
What I got instead was something more like this:
The way I perceived it as a child, the lower spec kit was a cruel parody of the amazing science bonanza I wanted, I'd already imagined the things I could invent and now those dreams were crushed.
Wrapping paper gives you the expectation that what is inside is something special. Unwrapping something mediocre is like stepping through the back of the wardrobe and not finding yourself in Narnia but Grimsby town centre.
I'd love to hear comments on whether this blog has revolutionised or ruined Xmas for you?
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